kissing, yep i feel like kissing would be cheating.

just happen She texted me and said she meant someone else, that was a clue that she was cheating. I am mad and hurt. Going to cash Saturday to tie one on. Hopefully you werent cheated on, it sucks

Nope not cheated on just thought it was interesting info.

i consider serious flirtation cheating texting phoning etc

and that's for the other person for me I consider even plain flirtation cheating!!!!!!!!

I think I agree For me the word 'serious' is important in this discussion. I don't mind the insignificant flirting, texting, emailing, etc., but at some point when it crosses the line and it becomes more serious in nature, yea then that's a serious sign of problems... and I think both of you know when it's crossed that line.

Or if you are lying about it too then that's a big red flag too. BTW - I have absolutely no idea about the ovulation aspect.

I agree completely if the other person is lying about it then there is trouble in more ways then one.

Hmmm I have to disagree what if they are just friends?

of course texting and phoning is fine between friends that's different!!!

cheating............ there are so many ways to cheat. cheating sometimes will begin emotionally and goes from there.

Where is her heart? If her heart is no longer with me, it is no longer with me. Actions beyond and after that are, perhaps, her way of letting me know that her heart is no longer with me. It takes a lot of courage to simply speak one's truth. Sometimes...sometimes...simply speaking one's truth before any actions are taken that involve other people's hearts allows both parties to acknowledge that maybe, just maybe, their time together is up, to cry together for what once was, to cry together for what no longer is, to share a few last hugs and then wish each other well~

The other hearts I agree don't bring in other hearts. Deal with your own issues together and if you cannot work it out, then move on before either of you get to the point where you feel the need to bring someone else into the equation. That's not good at all! Just muddies the waters and confuses what the original issues were to begin with.

+x ^^^